“Are You Still Bored?”: A Young Adult’s Guide to Escaping the Monotony in LagosAre you still bored!

So I’m not even gonna lie—one of the most consistent things about adulthood is boredom. Not the dramatic kind, but the slow, creeping kind that shows up between trying to meet your needs and maintaining cordial relationships with loved ones. It’s not just you. It’s all of us.

🧭 Where to Go (Even If You’re Not Jet-Setting)

Whether you’re in a buzzing metropolis or a quiet town, boredom doesn’t stand a chance if you know where to look. Try these:

  • Local Parks or Gardens: Perfect for solo strolls, picnics, or people-watching.
  • Museums and Galleries: Even small cities have hidden gems that feed your curiosity.
  • Cultural Spots: Temples, churches, mosques, or historical landmarks—explore the soul of your city.
  • Nature Escapes: Hiking trails, beaches, lakes, or even a scenic hilltop—get outside and breathe.
  • Quirky Attractions: Upside-down houses, themed cafés, vintage bookstores—hunt for the unusual.
  • Community Events: Check out local markets, open mics, or pop-up exhibitions. You’ll be surprised what’s happening around you.

👯‍♀️ Who to Hang Out With

  • Your “low-maintenance” friends—the ones who don’t need a big plan to vibe.
  • Meetup groups or hobby circles (fitness, art, books).
  • Yourself. Seriously. Solo dates are underrated.

🧠 What to Do When You’re Bored

  1. Make Food: Try a new recipe. Cook like you’re auditioning for a cooking show.
  2. Attend Offline Events: Markets, exhibitions, open mics—Lagos always has something.
  3. Sightseeing: Explore your city like a tourist. You’ll be surprised what you’ve overlooked.
  4. Document Your Life: Not for the gram, but for your future self. Journals, vlogs, voice notes.
  5. Move Your Body: Dance, walk, hike, stretch. Anything that gets your blood flowing.

🕒 When to Do It

  • Weekends: Prime time for events and exploration.
  • Evenings: Perfect for solo walks, journaling, or cooking experiments.
  • Random Tuesdays: Because why wait for Friday?

Boredom isn’t a curse—it’s a signal. A nudge to shake things up, to reconnect with yourself and your city. So next time it creeps in, ask yourself: What haven’t I tried yet?


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